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6 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Painting Your Kitchen Cabinets White

Posted on August 23, 2021 by KylieMawdsley

Should you REALLY paint your kitchen cabinets white? We’ll see! 

It can be DARN tricky to pick the right white for your kitchen cabinets, because it’s not just about what YOU want, it’s about what your KITCHEN wants, and kitchens can be pretty finicky.

Kitchen island painted benjamin moore cloud white, before and after some time. View to open dining room. Kylie M INteriors E-design and online paint color expert

I have MANY E-Design clients who are desperate for a white kitchen, either a brand-new one or via painting their existing cabinets. However, they don’t always have the finishes to SUPPORT a white kitchen. Maybe they have a particular beige tile flooring or black appliances* that they don’t plan on changing. Maybe the rest of their home has wood trim and doors or other finishes that just won’t suit a fresher look in the kitchen. Whatever it is, I often have to break it to them that white would not be their kitchen’s best friend. And nothing breaks bad news better than a glass of wine and a slightly manic Ginger, right?

Kitchen cabinets painted Benjamin Moore White Dove, Edgecomb Gray, white quartz. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, diy blogger

It’s important to take a close look at a) if your kitchen and home can visually support a white kitchen and if it CAN, then, b) choosing the white that suits the rest of your finishes and furnishings and not just choosing the white that suits your fancy.

You need to choose a cabinet color that actually suits your HOME, not just your personal tastes

So, to help save at least a BIT of your sanity, I’ve got some great tips to help you decide not just if white is right for your home, but which type of white you should be looking for!

Best white paint colours for kitchen cabinets, should you paint. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, ft Benjamin and Sherwin Williams

1. Which type of white suits your countertop?

In the ideal world, the surfaces in your kitchen are all well-coordinated and will suit a particular white (and if they don’t, you may have a bigger project in your near future). For this question, take a good look at your countertop and figure out which TYPE of white it has in it (we’ll get into what to do if you don’t have any white shortly).

Does your countertop contain a clean crisp white or a warm white/off-white/cream?


If you have a clean white in your countertop, you’ll want to look at clean white paint colors for your cabinets, in other words, ones that have little to no color/tint in them. You’ll want the whites to flow so that they are the same TYPE of white. Bring paint samples home. Do they seem a bit more yellow/blue/pink than the white in your countertop or do they really blend in with the existing white?

The best white for kitchen cabinets with marble. Sherwin Williams High Reflective White. Kylie M INteriors Edesign, online paint colour consultant

Sherwin Williams High Reflective White


If you have an off-white or warm white in your countertop, then you’ll want to look at warm white paint colors for your cabinets. It’s also important that the undertones suit each other. So, if the white in your countertop is warm with a touch of yellow – your cabinet’s white should follow suit. If the white in your countertop is warm with a touch of orange or red, there’s a good chance it’s actually an OFF-WHITE, not a white, which means you may have to head into the warm off-white range (there aren’t great whites with orange/pink undertones).

Kitchen cabinets and island painted Benjamin Moore White Dove, white quartz countertop, greige subway tile. Edgecomb Gray baby fawn walls. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, diy blogger

While many try to squeeze this next early 2000s granite countertop into a white palette, it will only DATE the look of the countertop. Instead, a soft off-white is a MUCH better approach (as shown)…

Sherwin Williams painted off white cabinets with granite countertop. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, online paint colour consulting (1)

Are Off-White or Light Depth Painted Cabinets the Best For YOUR Kitchen?

Formica Soapstone Sequoia greige laminate countertop in kitchen with cloud white cabinets. Kylie M E-design

See more of this project HERE

Not quite sure WHICH type of white you have? Read this – The 5 Types of White Paint Colors

My countertops don’t have white in them, what now?

If neither your countertops nor backsplash have white or off-white in them, then what color family are they in? Are they warm or cool? Shades of gray, brown, or a bit more colorful? These are all things you need to consider before choosing your cabinet’s best white.


Of course, here is where anal Kylie comes out and says that you also need to consider whether you have WARM grays or COOL grays, as well as considering their undertones. Cool grays often prefer true or cool whites, whereas warm grays often prefer true or warm whites (are you exhausted yet? Wine helps). And don’t worry, I’ll be introducing you to some GREAT white paint colors shortly!

See more of this beauty HERE

White kitchen, gray glaze, gray stools, coffered ceilings, granite and marble countertop, dark wood island. Kylie M INteriors E-design, online consultant


Shades of greige tend to suit a slightly softer white, not TERRIBLY warm or creamy, but definitely not a stark white or a cold one. And of course, there are exceptions based on personal style/specific color, I’m just here to get you on the right path!

Kylie M Interiors Edesign, cloud white kitchen cabinets, granite countertop, glass subway tile backsplash. south facing. online consulting

See more of this project HERE

And remember, there’s a WHOLE WORLD of great paint colors that might suit your kitchen even better than white as shown with this kitchen island below…

Kitchen island before paint with Kylie M Interiors edesign

Wood kitchen island painted Sherwin Williams Urbane Bronze with granite countertop. Gold hardware, Kylie M INteriors Edesign, orange wood flooring


If your countertop is in the warmer, earth-toned end of things, then you’ll want to pick that up with your whites and choose soft, warm whites or even off-whites (examples coming up shortly).

Maple kitchen cabinets before after painted off-white. BEnjamin Moore White Down. Kylie M Interiors E-design, online paint color consultant and expert

See more of this makeover HERE! 


If you have a cool color that is dominant in your countertop (ie: blue/violet/cool green), you’ll want to choose a true or slightly cool white that suits that particular color/undertone (the odd cool colored countertops suits a warm white).

Paint colour and backsplash ideas to update uba tuba green granite countertops. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, online diy advice blogger

If you have a WARM color that is dominant (ie: yellow/orange/red), then you’ll want to pick a warm white that picks up on that particular color/undertone – and there is NO warm countertop that will prefer a cool white over a warm one. Examples of warm and cool whites are coming up shortly!

Sherwin Williams Dorian Gray, white kitchen cabinets and buffet, teal accent stools and home decor. Kylie M Interiors and Alair Homes Nanaimo

And please don’t be overwhelmed, these are ALL things that I consider when I do my E-design consultations, so if you’re struggling, you know who to holler at (well, you know who to email – I never answer my phone). I also have a super-effective SEARCH FUNCTION and more articles for you to learn from!

2.  Will your backsplash look good with white cabinets?

In the ideal world, the backsplash would coordinate with the countertop which would coordinate with the floor – but this isn’t always the case. Backsplashes are a TRICKY one and it’s so easy to just miss the color connection.

I recently did an E-design with a client who had a GORGEOUS home and wanted a white kitchen and it was DARN hard to get give it to her. What her COUNTERTOP wanted in a cabinet color was a warm white or off-white. What her crisp clean white subway tile backsplash wanted was a crisp clean true white paint color. AND, because she wanted to keep the backsplash AND it’s on the same vertical sightline as the cabinets (meaning it connects quicker with the cabinets than the horizontal countertops), we had to humour the backsplash BEFORE the countertop.

white subway tile and granite countertops

So, while I suggested the best white for the situation and what she was asking for, I STRONGLY SUGGESTED a few other solutions that would ‘bridge the gap’ a bit more. In her case, it made more sense to choose a medium-toned warm gray that suited her countertop AND her backsplash. And while it might not be the white kitchen she had in mind, it would look better in the long run. And let’s be honest, in the ideal world she would get a new backsplash (or countertop), but in the REAL world, sometimes we have to work with what we’ve got!

This next kitchen is another example of a client who was hoping for white cabinets. But as far as the backsplash, countertop and flooring were concerned, it was a HARD no.

kitchen cabinets and countertop BEFORE IMAGE

Instead, I suggested saving her money by keeping the cabinets as-is. Once she’s ready to remodel the kitchen (in a few years), she could then create a nicely balanced palette from scratch. In the meantime, a more suitable paint color on the walls and updated light fixtures would make a HUGE difference to this space, giving it a fresher face.

And this is NOT an anomaly – I see this ALL the time. White subway tile is SUPER popular and just like choosing the best white for cabinets, you also have to choose the best white SUBWAY TILE for your countertop, and so often, the default ‘white subway tile’ is used when something else might be a bit better.

White kitchen cabinets, Sherwin Williams, marble subway tile backsplash, white, gray veined quartz countertop LG, stainless steel appliances. Angled range hood Kylie M Interiors Edesign (3)

3. Is your existing trim color going to work with your new white cabinet color?

A lot of my clients hope to keep their current trim color when painting their cabinets (the less painting the better). However, it can be a HOT mess once you start mixing whites and I’m a HUGE believer (understatement) in having whites consistent in a room, which means it’s BEST if your trim matches the cabinets. So, you have two choices…

  1. See whether your trim color is the best color for your cabinets. Assuming the trim color was chosen to suit the countertop and backsplash, it should work for the cabinets as well. This is the IDEAL situation.
  2. HOWEVER, I’ve found that not enough attention is given to trim and it’s OFTEN the wrong color for the room. In this case, you may want to choose your new cabinet color and then paint the trim this color as well.

Sherwin Williams Collonade Gray in north facing kitchen with Alabaster cabinets, Summerhill quartz. Gibraltar Cliffs feature wall. Kylie M INteriors Edesign

The reason why this matters and why your trim and cabinets should be the SAME white is that one white can EASILY make another white look dingy/yellow/green/cool/etc…in comparison. This might not seem like a big deal, but if you’re even REMOTELY sensitive to these things, it’s friggin’ horrendous.

The best white and gray paint colors for kitchen cabinets or bathroom vanity. Benjamin or Sherwin. Edesign, Kylie M Interiors Online colour consulting. Home Decorating and diy ideas blogger

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4. Does your home even SUIT a white kitchen? Maybe not…

This is a big one (that’s what she said…). Does the rest of your home SUIT a white kitchen? Can your KITCHEN support white cabinets? (FUN QUIZ HERE!)

Best paint colours to go with dark wood trim, doors and floor. Kylie M INteriors Ediesng, similar to BM White Dove or Dove Wing. Client before photo

Not every home suits a white kitchen for a variety of reasons including furnishings, existing hard finishes and SO much more, which we’re getting into next…

5. Do you already have a whole lotta wood – trim, floor & more?

If you have a home with a lot of wood trim/doors/built-ins, white cabinets can be tricky. You DON’T want the kitchen to be the only white thing in the area, it needs something else (other than the ceiling) to visually support it…something such as trim, home decor and furniture pieces. It’s SLIGHTLY easier to pull off an off-white/cream kitchen with wood trim, but a ‘white’ kitchen might not make sense on the large scale.

HOme office red cherry wood before edesign (1)

If you have a whole lot of WOOD in your home, you’re going to have to work hard to make a white kitchen feel at home! 

If you stand in the rooms that are ATTACHED to your kitchen, would they all flow if your cabinets were white? Do you have enough white in your other rooms (ie: trim/built-ins/decor) to support a white kitchen?

The Best Paint Colors for Wood Trim

6. Do you have any other major considerations?


If you don’t have windows in the kitchen, this isn’t as much of a problem, but if you have beige windows, then white cabinets are probably a no-go. There ARE exceptions depending on the countertop/backsplash you choose, but it’s a tough sell. Beige windows can look dingy up against white cabinets and the overall approach will appear poorly coordinated.

Revere Pewter painted kitchen cabinets, Cambria Brittanica Warm quartz countertops, polished nickel hardware, stainless. Kylie M Edesign, diy blogger


This one is picking up on that little * that you might’ve noticed way earlier. Some people don’t mind the look of white cabinets/black appliances. Personally (and decoratively), I find it WAY too high contrast for a kitchen, unless PARTICULAR things are in place (which I’ve covered in this blog post).

Budget friendly kitchen with painted cabinet in Benjamin Moore Chelsea Gray, white subway tile, black countertops, red toned wood floor. Kylie M INteriors E-decor

A two-tone kitchen is a GREAT example of a happy medium with black appliances


Beige appliances are a SUPER tough sell with white cabinets and it’s basically a hard-no. I would rather you spend your money on new white/black/stainless appliances so that down the road, you can paint the cabinets whatever color you (and your home) want.


If you stand outside and then walk in, would a white kitchen feel WEIRD compared to your exterior? Maybe you could consider a WARM white, but not a cool/crisp white? This is often the case with exteriors that have earth tones/warmer colors on them vs grays and cool tones. And again, window color can play a BIG part.

This is the exterior of our new home. Does it look like a ‘white kitchen’ kinda house to you? HECK no.

Exterior of our new house

Don’t worry, our exterior will look DRASTICALLY different come Springtime when we get some fresh paint on it!

The Best Cool or True Whites for Cabinets

Painted maple, cherry wood kitchen cabinets in Benjamin Moore Chantilly Lace, Amherst Gray, green granite. Black appliances. Kylie M Interiors Edesign

Benjamin Moore Chantilly Lace

How to choose the best paint colour for a 2 storey room or tall wall with vaulted ceilings. Sherwin Williams Dovetail and Repose Gray, white kitchen by Kylie M Interiors

White shaker style cabinets, white quartz countertops, Coventry Gray island and Stonington Gray walls

And while I could go into morbid detail about these colors, you could also read these…

The Best Warm Whites & Off-Whites (creams) for Cabinets 

Wood maple kitchen cabinets painted Benjamin Moore White Down. Kylie M E-design, online virtual paint consulting. Granite countertop, backsplash, glass cabinets, wood flooring

Benjamin Moore White Down (see more of this project HERE)

Alabaster, White kitchen, Alabaster, Island Sherwin Iron Ore, Viatera Aria, Sandbar. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, online virtual paint color consulting. Kitchen remodel

Sherwin Williams Alabaster


Samplize is BY FAR the easiest and most affordable way to sample paint colors, however, they come in an eggshell finish. It’s important to note that cabinets are almost ALWAYS painted in a satin finish. This slightly enhanced sheen can slightly lift and brighten colors.

Here are just a few reasons why I recommend Samplize to my clients…

  • samples arrive ON YOUR DOORSTEP in approx. 1 business day, depending on location and country
  • at $6.99, they’re more affordable than the samples pots/rollers/foam boards that are needed for traditional paint sampling
  • if you keep the samples on their white paper, you can move them around the room

Visit the SAMPLIZE website HERE 

Paint colour review of tool Samplize, peel and stick samples. Benjamin Moore, Sherwin Williams, Farrow and Ball, Home Depot. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, online paint color consulting



The Pros & Cons of Off-White & Light Depth Painted Cabinets

The 4 Best Sherwin Williams White Paint Colors

Benjamin Moore 8 Best White Paint Colors

The 3 Best White Paint Colors for a North-Facing Room

Benjamin Moore 3 Best Warm White Paint Colors


Not sure which white is best for your kitchen or bathroom cabinets?

Check out my E-Design services – I’d love to help! 

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  1. Hi Kylie, I’m thinking you’ll be revising your ‘black appliances” recommendation, especially as the up and coming color trend is black and white (goodbye grey)! I’m beginning to see more and more white/black and less grey….

    I agree though that there are way more considerations for color than what the current trend is, as you point out homes with lots of wood wouldn’t play well with an all-white kitchen. I’m also a big fan of decorating with colors YOU like and not being a slave to the current trend.

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      I know, isn’t it funny! I have seen more kitchens with the black appliances/white cabinets, but without putting key things in place (ie: dark countertops) I just find it too graphic (personally AND decoratively). Things are always a-changin’ and I agree that gray is slowly (slooowly) fading…

  2. Congratulations on your new house. Can’t wait to see what you do with it.
    I totally agree with the white teaching above. It’s easy to make mistakes with white….and not every home needs white!

  3. This such a great post and very helpful. Helped me deicde between Extra White and Pure White. My counterops looks very similar to the ones pictured with the subway tile backsplash. It is so hard, I have a counter top with warm whites and going with SW Pure White but want a cool color (mint, cool blue) on the walls so bad. I hope those undertones don’t clash!

  4. Hi Kylie-
    I’m new to your site, but you are amazing with sharing your knowledge and your time. I am a fellow designer and see a kindred spirit in you. Great reading and I’ve learned new things about color and paint!
    Good luck with your new house and thank you for your generosity! Best, Jenine Beck

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  5. Hi Kylie,
    So I took your suggestion of picking a countertop first. I really like the look of MSI Quartz in Ash Gray. Are you familiar with that shade of quartz? I am wondering what shade of white would be best for the cabinets. Thank you! I really appreciate your website.

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  6. Hi Kylie,

    Great article! I’m am redoing a bathroom and have a lot of whites going on. I’m doing a Florentine Carrara porcelain tile and a Quartz countertop in Arctic White. Both are very crisp. Floor is gray/brown oak plank tile. The Carrara has both the brown and the gray in it although very subtle. And then there is the free standing tub and sinks which are more a traditional white. Ugh!!! Can you offer any advice? I’m refacing cabinets and am confused on which way to go.


  7. My wife and I have been planning some upgrades to our home now that we’ve been earning more money. It really helped when you suggested keeping the same tone of white for the entire kitchen from the flooring to the countertops because we’re very pleased with the white hardwood flooring we have in the kitchen and wanted to make adjustments elsewhere instead, like the cabinets for example. I’ll be sure to remember your tips when looking for a remodeling contractor who can help us out with the rest of the fixtures. Thank you!

  8. You’ve been a great help to me over the years, Kylie.

    My walls throughout the entire living area are SW Kilim Beige (trying to match an ugly fireplace at the time). My husband says that is not changing. I also have nice wood windows and trim and darker wood floors. We are updating the kitchen and can paint the cabinets with new countertops and backsplash. Would Dover White work for the cabinets? (I don’t have Benjamin Moore available in our little town). I need a serious off-white/cream as white will be too stark.

    1. I also have dark wood floors and killem beige walls! What white did you choose for cabinets? Did you go with quartz or grant countertop?

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