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How to Mix Wood Tones/Stains in Your Home – COMMON QUESTIONS

Posted on January 16, 2024 by KylieMawdsley
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Having a problem with your wood? Maybe you have decorectile dysfunction. Seriously though, when updating our homes, we often pay more attention to what we like, versus what suits the existing finishes.

In particular, coordinating new wood stains with existing wood surfaces is tough, especially if you don’t love your wood’s current color or grain pattern. Sure, it’s a bit easier when you’re designing a home from scratch and can choose what you love, but it’s still not EASY.

To help you out, I created the blog post How to Coordinate Wood Stains. However, there are a lot of questions related to this topic; enough that I can write a whole new blog post unto itself!



If you have a question and it’s not covered in this blog post – leave me a comment! If it has enough appeal (can help others too), I’m happy to answer it for you IN FULL in this blog post. You might even get to send me in example photos of your woody challenge!

1. Which should be the lighter wood stain – the cabinets or the floor?

2. Can you put two different wood floor stains/tones together?

3. Can you use solid wood flooring and luxury vinyl plank (LVT or LVP) together – like butting up to each other?

Open concept living room, kitchen, dining room, raised 10 foot ceiling, oak wood floor and open railing, blue accents. BEnjamin Moore White Dove walls, cabinets, trims, Kylie M Interiors

But before we get to these questions, let’s chat a little more…



If you’re currently living in a nightmare of clashing stains and grains and they’re giving you pain in your brain (yes, I’m going insane), I’m here to help.

Let’s say you find a relatively neutral, white oak or maple flooring and you’re in love. You install it in your home and it looks amazing. Then, you haul in your old solid mahogany or cherry dining set, only to realize that the red undertones of your furniture clash with your lovely new floor.

What do you do? You keep on reading. 

Sherwin Williams Canvas Tan in open layout living and dining with vaulted ceilings and fireplace. Kylie m Interiors paint colour

I only use photos from my Online Color Consulting clients, so don’t always have ‘just’ the image I need. Thank you for sending your photos in! 

But it’s not just wood furniture and flooring that will give you a run for your money, coordinating kitchen cabinets with new wood floors can be tough too.

Maybe you have oak cabinetry from the 80s or 90s and want to put in new wood flooring. You go to the store and choose a wood floor (or LVP) that’s not NEARLY as orange-red (or yellow) as your cabinets and you feel SO much better…Oak kitchen before being updated (2)

However, once you install your flooring you realize your cabinets POP in comparison and nothing looks good, in fact, it all clashes.

Check out this next kitchen. While the floor and cabinets share a pink undertone, they’re too far apart due to the strength of the cabinet’s cherry-red stain…

Dark black granite, cherry red maple wood cabinets, Benjamin Moore Edgecomb Gray. Kylie M edesign CLIENT PHOTO

But don’t worry, this kitchen got a great cabinet overhaul and looks amazing (different angle, but you get the idea)…

Black granite countertops, painted cabinets, Sherwin Williams Alabaster walls, coganc leather bar stools. Client photo, Kylie M Interiors Edesign

However, painting your cabinets or replacing your furniture isn’t always in the budget.

In this case, you’ve got to do the best you can with what you’ve got. 

Sometimes, the ‘best you can get’ isn’t PERFECT, but it’s better than before.

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And it’s not just wood coordination that’s challenging, I see it all the time with tile backsplashes that are too white for their older granite countertops, and gray sofas that are too cool for the beige carpet they sit on.

But not every space can be saved, other than restaining or painting one surface or the other. However, there are some small shifts you can try that might distract from your hot mess without having to remodel the entire space.



Just remember that depending on how bad the clashing is – some things aren’t entirely FIXABLE. Let’s revisit what I mentioned earlier…

Sometimes you have to do the BEST you can with what you have. But if you have a hot mess of wood stains, short of changing/painting one or two, there might not be a WHOLE lot you can do. 

But in the meantime, let’s see if we can make things a bit better.



While this is a last resort, there’s nothing like a vat of wine hunk to cheer you up. Oh, I’m sorry, did you think I was a serious blogger? Just joking, the good stuff is coming.




Short of restaining your wood floor, furniture, or cabinets, separating them with area rugs is the best way to DISTRACT from clashing hue or competing wood grains.

In this dining room, the wood floor coordinates well with the wood window trims, the dining table, and the dog. Even when wood stains coordinate, a rug helps to define each one, rather than having them blend into each other…

Benjamin Moore Standish White dining room, country style, wood trim, wood floor. Kylie M Interiors, edesign, virtual paint color consultant

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I love this next dining room so much – my clients are awesome. They did such a great job with their paint colors, furnishings, area rug, and decor that you don’t even notice that the floor is much more red-toned than the furniture pieces…

Dining room with wainscoting in Sherwin Williams Creamy, walls Benjamin Moore Chelsea Gray, ceiling Oakwood Manor. Round dark wood dining table and home decor

Brands like Ruggable have great, washable options (I’m not getting any kickbacks for these mentions, they’re just great rugs to try). Choose a rug with a LOW pile so you don’t get crusties and crumblies buried in it.

Again, another beauty…

Sherwin Williams Wall Street and Wool Skein, coffered ceiling, moldings dining room,entryway. Kylie M INteriors E-design, online paint colour consulting. Client photo

This dining table has violet-red tones, whereas the floor stain is more orange-brown – the rug is a GREAT moderator!



Area rugs work in bedrooms too if your wood floor and bedframe don’t quite match…

Mountain contemporary style bedroom. Sherwin Williams Balanced Beige neutral. Kylie M Interiors E-design, wood furniture,

Even though the woods coordinate, the area rug adds softness when getting out of bed and is the perfect layer to this room. 

Dunn Edwards Faded Gray similar to Benjamin Moore Silver Satin, off white warm gray, primary bedroom, home staging ideas, blue accents, rug on wood

Again, great coordination – just a good photo to show you how pretty an area rug can look REGARDLESS! 



In a kitchen, if your cabinets and wood floor are clashing, add a runner (again, Ruggable has washable ones, as rugs in the kitchen give me the heebie-jeebies). A well-coordinated runner helps to break up your flooring, so there isn’t as much in your eyeball when you take room in.

While this next kitchen doesn’t have a wood-inspired challenge, the area rug placement is a great example…

Benjamin Moore Caldwell Green, modern green on painted wood kitchen cabinets, cathedral, arched door style, white quartz countertop, subway tile backsplash, floating shelves, oak floor

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I love how the colors in the runner connect to the floor while adding a great contrast to the dark green painted cabinets.

Remember, just because it’s wood, doesn’t mean it’s good (there are some situations only paint can fix).

This next cozy, open-concept kitchen and dining room is well-decorated and the paint colors are pretty on point, if I do say so myself (wink wink). While the red tones in the dining set coordinate with the wood floor, I just want to share how area rugs add charm and break up wood surfaces IF they clash…

Sherwin Williams Agreeable Gray warm gray or greige painted kitchen island, trim and board and batten on lower walls. Kylie M Interiors paint color expert,Dining area wood furniture, Benjamin Moore Chantilly Lace walls,

I love how the texture in the stools grabs the texture in the rug. Also, notice the perimeter ‘peach’ of the patterned rug ties into the rattan rug with its color (a great way to coordinate rugs is to have one patterned and one solid/textured. Repeat the solid rug’s color in the patterned rug).



It’s a big deal if your wood floor and wood cabinets clash, as these are two pretty darn big expanses of wood. If you happen to have an island (and aren’t up for a whole kitchen cabinet paint project), consider painting just the island.

This next kitchen has beautiful wood cabinets, but notice how the floor leans a bit more yellow-pink compared to the orange-pink of the cabinets…

Kitchen walls Benjamin Moore Texas Leather, office Knoxville Gray blue green blend, orange stain wood cabinets, wood trim and floor, granite countertops. (1)

Again, a kitchen doesn’t need to be PERFECT to be DARN PRETTY! 

In the big picture, there’s a lot of wood on wood, considering the window and door trims are wood as well. To break things up, painting the island would ground the space and give the other wood finishes and granite countertops something to play with. For the above kitchen, I’d look at a dark shade of greige (and add a rug).

While I’d love to see ALL the cabinets in this next kitchen painted this glorious dark navy blue, even the island makes me happy…

Oak wood kitchen cabinets update ideas painted island in Sherwin Williams Cyberspace, brass hardware, oak flooring. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, online paint colour expert decorating blogger (3)

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Painting the island breaks up the wood-on-wood and updates the wood cabinet and floor combination.

If you want to learn HOW to coordinate wood stains like a pro, check out this blog post. Now it’s time to answer those questions that have been burnin’ a hole in your keyboard…



This is always a tricky one as there are so many different situations. Here are the most common ones…

  • DARK WOOD CABINETS prefer wood flooring that’s the same depth or lighter than them. Depending on your style, you can go a tone or two, or create a lot of contrast with much lighter flooring – as long as the undertones jibe!
  • DARK WOOD FLOORING, depending on the actual depth, usually prefers cabinets that have the same undertone but are darker. You can try to go a tone or two lighter but avoid high-contrast combos.

The dark wood cabinets in this next kitchen would prefer a wood floor that’s more violet-pink, not orange. They’d also like the floor to be LIGHTER (they told me so)…

Dark wood kitchen before cabinets painted with granite (3)

Look at how much happier and more updated this kitchen looks with the right floor…

Dark wood kitchen before cabinets painted with granite (2)

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Here’s another great partnership of dark, espresso-stained wood cabinets and wood (look) floor…

Open concept layout living, dining room and kitchen, wood tile look floor, cognac leather, Sherwin Pure White walls, dark wood cabinets. Kylie M Interiors Edesign

This next combo picks up a lot more violet-red (pink) and shows great coordination…

Dark cherry red stain wood cabinets, hexagon marble tile backsplash, INverness Frost Cambria off-white quartz countertop, wood floor, island, Kylie M Interiors

Now let’s take a look at the medium-depth world…

  • MEDIUM-DEPTH WOOD CABINETS (give or take) love wood flooring that’s similar in depth or a tone darker or lighter – contrast should be relatively low.
  • MEDIUM-DEPTH WOOD FLOORS, your cabinets could be the same depth or a tone or two darker.

Look at how happy these wood cabinets are with the wood floor…

Wood cabinet UPDATE IDEAS, Taj Mahal quartzite, old world feel, zellige tile backsplash, wood floor. Kylie M

While the backsplash might not be long for this world, the warm quartzite countertop is amazeballs.

kitchen with slate tile backsplash, black granite countertop, dark gray green painted hood fan and cherry wood cabinets. Kylie M Interiors

In my ideal world, this floor would be a tone or so darker and have a bit more orange in it.

This next example is awesome as it shows quite clearly a wood island and wood floor with the same undertones – notice the shift in the grain pattern from busy to quiet…

Wood kitchen island cabinets, red oak floors, pendant lights, Caesarstone Staturio Nuvo white quartz countertop, White Dove walls. Kylie M Interiors Edesign, update ideas blogger

This depth is between light and medium – Benjamin Moore White Dove walls.

And lastly, lighter-toned wood cabinets and flooring…

  • LIGHT WOOD CABINETS love light wood flooring or floors that are a tone darker. Avoid high-contrast combos.
  • LIGHT WOOD FLOORS love light wood cabinets or cabinets. It’s not ideal to have much contrast between light wood cabinets and wood flooring. However, in the odd modern/contemporary home dark cabinets and light wood floors can look good.

There’s a reasonable degree of contrast between the wood floors in this open-concept home and the wood stain of the TV cabinet…

Open concept great room, living room, wood burning stove, stone fireplace, Sherwin Williams Repose Gray warm gray paint color on walls, gray sectional, light wood floor. Kylie M.

Sherwin Williams Repose Gray

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Why do they work so well together? They both share a violet undertone (the cabinet is violet-pink, the floor is heavier on the pink and lighter on the violet).

I also love the degree of CONTRAST. I might not love it as much if it was kitchen cabinets (personally, as I don’t generally love high-contrast wood combos), but being a smaller piece, it looks wicked good.

This next kitchen is in a gorgeous, mountain-style home, tucked away in the trees. While the floor is a touch more pink, the overall combo works great (I’m just being picky for the sake of teaching)…

Benjamin Moore Oxford White painted kitchen cabinets, wood oak island, wood floor, black pendants, mountain style chalet home, vaulted tongue and groove ceiling

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Next up, the new light wood floor in this kitchen is too light and not orange enough for the original cabinets. But this was on purpose as the owner was painting the cabinets anyway, so she chose a flooring she loves!

maple kitchen cabinets before being painted (2) (2)

Maritime White, beige on walls, Benjamin Moore White Dove painted maple upper cabinets, green lower cabinets, Antique Pewter, cathedral style, white quartz.

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You can but you really shouldn’t. I know it’s not what you want to hear, especially if you’re trying to replace your carpet, vinyl, or tile, and want to butt a new wood floor up to an existing one.

There’s no world in which two different wood floors look good in adjoining rooms. 

  • Can you coordinate them to look ‘as good as they possibly can?‘ Absolutely, but it’s still not great.
  • Is it better to get as CLOSE as possible than to do something drastically different? YES, contrast will not be your friend (nor will I) when coordinating wood flooring.

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Luxury Vinyl Plank flooring is a popular trend for the realistic look and ease of installation. However, you can feel the difference when you’re walking, and when butted up to real wood, you can see the difference (not just in the look, but in height – unless you build up your subfloor).

I’m here to help you make the right choices, not to tell you what you want to hear (if it is what you want to hear, it’s only because you’re doing the right thing). 

I would rather see Luxury Vinyl Tile (LVT), so a tile look, not a wood look when it comes to coordinating with wood floors. Even carpet is better than bumping LVP and wood floor up to each other.

This comes up a lot in bedrooms or hallways where there’s wood floor and the owner wants to install LVP in the bathroom. Hardest no…ever.

Small bathroom with wainscoting, boa

Sherwin Williams Light French Gray

These wood floors (above and below) don’t want to be partnered up with a real wood floor.

Sherwin Williams Pure White shiplap feature wall in dining room, Agreeable Gray greige walls, modern farmhouse style, graywash LVT wood look floor.

Sherwin Williams Agreeable Gray and Sherwin Williams Pure White shiplap

Are there any exceptions? You bet your booty there are.

  • If you have a wood floor on your main floor and want vinyl/LVP/LVT on a bottom or top floor, YES, as long as the two floors are separated with carpeted stairs.
  • There’s the odd exception to the previous point. For example, let’s say you have a wood floor on one level, wooden stairs, and you’re going down to a family room that you want a wood-look/LVP product in. If you match these products PERFECTLY in grain, stain, and size, then yes, you can have them together. However, I wouldn’t do this on a staircase that attaches to a foyer as the shift from real wood to faux wood will be right in your eyeball when you walk in the door – and these areas are often more well-lit.


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Chat soon,

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  1. I think my house falls into that final exception — I have classic clear-varnished white oak hardwood floors on the main levels of my home and the stairs, but the below-grade basement had to be LVP for practicality. I picked one that coordinates well in color/undertone with the hardwood, though not necessarily in plank size. It actually is a pretty seamless visual transition — it helps that the basement stairwell is fairly dark and narrow, of course — although the giveaway is actually the texture change since I walk around my house barefoot or in socks.

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