How to Warm Up a Gray Room Using the Right Lighting

When trying to update and warm up a home with gray finishes, lighting is often the last place we look, when it should be the first. This is even more the case if you don’t want to repaint or replace any of your gray finishes.

Why is lighting so important for a gray-inspired room?

While the color of your gray finishes won’t change, they are what they are – how you SEE them could. So, if you want more warmth, let’s add some!

When designing the ‘millennial gray home,’ many builders and homeowners opted for cleaner, daylight bulbs. While MY ideal daylight is warm, as it relates to bulbs, ‘daylight bulbs’ can be a pretty cold look.

Seriously, I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve said to my Online Color Consulting clients, ‘I think you should change your light bulbs, ‘ and more often than not, they need to be warmer.

1. LET ME INTRODUCE YOU TO KELVIN, HE’S A GREAT GUY

While Kelvin might sound like a friendly neighbor’s name, this Kelvin is about to make your home a whole lot more inviting and warmer-looking.

Your light bulb’s Kelvin rating should complement your paint color and the ideal mood of your room.

For example, this next room is north-facing and has a lot of gray-inspired finishes…

A higher Kelvin/cooler bulb would be a double-whammy, considering the cool temperature of the north-facing natural light, the gray paint color on the walls, and the grayish quartz countertop.

While some paint colors look best in a cooler light (higher Kelvins), in general, they are more LIVABLE and welcoming in a softer, warmer light (lower Kelvins). 

Unscrew those bad boys and see what you’ve got.

1. If your bulbs have a Kelvin rating above 3500, you’re amplifying the cool effect of your gray room. Heck, even 3500 isn’t great.
2. Buy two types of bulbs – one @ 2700K and one @ 3000K. Try both (one temperature at a time) and see what feels and looks best. If you’re a complete heathen, try 3500K, but don’t expect any miracles.
3. Replace more than one bulb when sampling temperatures (if possible). If your room only HAS one fixture, cool beans, but if you can change 2+ bulbs in this experiment, give ‘er a go.

While it’s less of a concern (many of today’s bulbs are of reasonable quality), you might also check the CRI of your bulbs to make sure they don’t cast a greenish tint on your beautiful paint color. Cheaper bulbs often have lower CRIs.

How KELVINS & Light Bulbs Affect Paint Colors

2. CREATE A TRIANGLE OF LIGHT

And you thought decorative triangles were just for home decor. Or maybe you didn’t. Either way, you can create this decorative triangle using 2 table lamps and 1 floor lamp or 3 table lamps. However, you do the Math, you need 3 fixtures.

When you draw a line between the 3 light fixtures (not literally), it should create a triangle.

This way, most of your room has light, and there’s a connection between the sources. If you want to add more, fill yer lil’ boots.

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3. USE THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF LIGHT FOR YOUR ROOM

You need to determine the wattage your room requires, especially if it has limited natural lighting. A well-lit room can support a variety of colors and depths, regardless of whether the light is natural or artificial.

Learn about How Much Light Your Room Needs

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

In case you have any lingering quandaries or queries…

SHOULD YOU USE WARM OR DAYLIGHT BULBS WITH GRAY ROOMS, FINISHES, OR PAINT COLORS?

While you should use the temperature you’re most comfortable living in, warm bulbs (approx. 2700-3000K) can help a cool-looking gray room look warmer and more inviting. Daylight bulbs (5000K) are too cold and clinical for most people to feel comfortable in.

Turn this bad boy on, and I bet this staircase looks a heck of a lot warmer…assuming the Kelvins aren’t too high…

HOW CAN YOU BRIGHTEN A ROOM WITHOUT MAKING IT LOOK COLDER?

Well, we’ve covered the lighting/lower Kelvin topic. Another way to brighten and lighten a room (and make it appear warmer) is to paint it a warm neutral color. You can also play around with home decor and accessories.

SUMMARY

• Cool gray rooms with gray finishes (or paint) often suit light bulbs with warmer Kelvins in the 2700K to 3000K range.
• While cool finishes often look their most genuine with higher Kelvins, those light bulbs/rooms aren’t as inviting or warm to live with.
• Try to create a triangle of light when decorating your room.
• Make sure the size of your room has enough lumens

Also, I’ve written several blog posts on updating gray flooring (or countertops, etc.) with neutrals, whites, and colors—check them out for more great ideas (I’m full of fun stuff!)

• The Best Beige Paint Colors for Gray Flooring
• The Best White Paint Colors to Update Gray Floors
• The Best Neutrals to Warm Up a Gray Home
• The Best Accent Colors for Gray Flooring
• How to Warm Up a Gray Room WITHOUT REPAINTING! 

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